Do you really know your mom? Have you ever asked her questions about her opinions, her life, and her choices? Children are more apt to ask questions of their parents, but as adults, many of us don't ask our parents questions. It’s a great way to become closer to a person, even someone you've known all your life. This Mother's Day, give it a try. Here are some ideas to get you thinking:

Looking back as a mom, what might you have done differently? No one is perfect, and raising kids is a tough job. But with age comes wisdom, so most of us can look back and see things we could have done better or differently.

Is it easier or harder to be a mother now than when we were younger? This question might give you some insight into what your mom may have sacrificed or struggled with when you were younger.

Why did you choose my father?It might be a revelation to hear your mother talk about the traits that first attracted her to your father.

In what ways are we alike (or not)? What do you value most in yourself and in me? Do you share some of your mom’s best qualities or her worst? Do your similarities and differences help you get along, or do they cause conflict?

What do you wish you had asked your parents? Most people regret not asking something—family or personal history, funeral wishes.

What things have you wanted to tell me but never have? This question could open a door or bring you closer together.

What do you wish had been different between us? What would you still like to change? This inquiry might help clear the air or even improve the relationship between you and your mom.

What is one of your happiest memories or one of the best places you’ve traveled, and why? What are you most grateful for, and why? Let your mom tell you stories about herself. You may not have heard them all before.

You may be surprised at what you learn, not only about your mom, but about yourself too.